Thursday, November 24, 2011

"Chase the Pain" Technique

By Tania A Prince

Chase the Pain is a precision EFT Technique.

There are several stages to it.

Stages in Chase the Pain

Assessment of the problem
Identify what needs to happen to constitute a result
Tapping on the quality of the symptoms
Re-assessment
Tapping on the new quality of the symptoms
Continue until you get the desired result

1. Assessment of the problem

The best way to do this is to ask, how do you know you have this problem? What you are looking for is a description of the quality of the pain/ problem, such as, “a sharp pain under my left shoulder blade”. The more precise you are in your description, generally the better the results, although it is not unknown to people to be relatively global and still for it to work! A more global description of the above problem would be to say, “This shoulder pain”. Pains and sensations can have many qualities, such as they can feel, cold or hot, tight, stretched, stabbing, throbbing etc. It is best practice to use the words supplied by the client or if you are working on yourself, to use the words that are natural for you. Avoid trying to use unfamiliar words for example some people try to put it into “medical speak”, it is not necessary and does not help you achieve results.

At this point you need to identify what the person needs to do to have this problem. For example, they may have no pain if their arm is still and down by their side. The pain may only occur if they move their arm to a specific position. It is very useful to ask the person to move until they feel the onset of the problem, making sure you advise them to take care of themselves and only take it to the point of it starting. Avoid plunging the person into painJ Some people are very keen and go for it, it is not advisable, so preempt it by instructing the client what you want them to do before you ask them to do it.

2. Identify what needs to happen to constitute a result

At this point you need to identify;

Is this a constant problem? For example the pain may fluctuate and disappear periodically, and if this is the case the fact it might disappear during the EFT may not really prove that the problem has gone. In this type of case you would need to know, “how long would you need that problem to no longer be there for you to know the problem has gone?”

3. Tapping on the quality of the symptoms

Using the descriptive terms that describe the quality of the problem you now tap a round of EFT.

For example:

Karate Point: “Even though I have a sharp pain under my left shoulder blade I completely and totally accept me anyway”
etc

4. Re-assessment

Now ask, “What are you aware of Now?”

Often the sensation or quality of the problem will change. For example a “sharp pain under the left shoulder” may become a “throbbing ache under the left shoulder”.

“And the intensity of that is?”

5. Tapping on the new quality of the symptoms

Using the new words supplied by the client (or yourself if you are doing self therapy) do another round of EFT.

Karate Point: “Even though now I have a throbbing ache under the left shoulder I completely and totally accept me anyway”
Etc

6. Continue until you get the desired result

Sometimes it is easy to know that you have the result, for example if a pain that is there constantly is no longer there it shows something dramatic is different. However if the pain is one that can come and go, it is worthwhile now to point out that something is different and for the client now to get feedback in the external world.

Chasing the Pain is a very beautiful approach that can often get dramatic results.

All the best,

Tania

Tania A Prince
EFT Master
NLP Trainer
AAMET Trainer
www.eft-courses.co.uk

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

RUMI ♥

I start out on this road,
call it love or emptiness.
I only know what’s not here.

Resentment seeds, back scratching greed,
worrying about outcome, fear of people.

When a bird gets free,
it does not go back for remnants
left on the bottom of the cage.

Close by, I’m rain. Far off,
a cloud of fire. I seem restless,
but I am deeply at ease.

Branches tremble. The roots are still.
I am a universe in a handful of dirt,
whole when totally demolished.

Talk about choices does not apply to me.

While intelligence considers options,

I am somewhere lost in the wind.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

The Dance of the Soul

“I have loved in life and I have been loved.
I have drunk the bowl of poison from the hands of love as nectar,
and have been raised above life's joy and sorrow.
My heart, aflame in love, set afire every heart that came in touch with it.
My heart has been rent and joined again;
My heart has been broken and again made whole;
My heart has been wounded and healed again;
A thousand deaths my heart has died, and thanks be to love, it lives yet.
I went through hell and saw there love's raging fire,
and I entered heaven illumined with the light of love.
I wept in love and made all weep with me;
I mourned in love and pierced the hearts of men;
And when my fiery glance fell on the rocks, the rocks burst forth as volcanoes.
The whole world sank in the flood caused by my one tear;
With my deep sigh the earth trembled, and when I cried aloud the name of my beloved,
I shook the throne of God in heaven.
I bowed my head low in humility, and on my knees I begged of love,
"Disclose to me, I pray thee, O love, thy secret."
She took me gently by my arms and lifted me above the earth, and spoke softly in my ear,
"My dear one, thou thyself art love, art lover,
and thyself art the beloved whom thou hast adored.”

― Hazrat Inayat Khan,

Saturday, November 19, 2011

With That Moon Language

Admit something:
Everyone you see, you say to them, "Love me."
Of course you do not do this out loud, otherwise someone would call the cops.
Still, though, think about this, this great pull in us to connect.
Why not become the one who lives with a full moon in each eye
that is always saying,
with that sweet moon language,
what every other eye in this world is dying to hear?

Hafiz

My Eyes So Soft

Don't surrender your loneliness so quickly
let it cut more deep.
Let it ferment and season you
as few human or even divine ingredients can
Something missing in my heart tonight
has made my eyes so soft
my voice so tender
my need of god
absolutely clear.

-Hafiz

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Rumi

“Whoever travels without a guide needs two hundred years for a two-day journey.”

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Rumi

I see so deeply within myself.
Not needing my eyes, I can see everything clearly.
Why would I want to bother my eyes again
Now that I see the world through His eyes?

Friday, November 4, 2011

Rumi

"There is a fountain inside you,don't walk around with an empty bucket

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Rumi

“A strange passion is moving in my head My heart has become a bird which searches in the sky. Every part of me goes in different directions. Is it really so that the one I love is Everywhere?”

"I have Been a seeker and I still am,But I stopped asking the books and the stars.
I started listening to the teaching of my soul."

"Where is the moon that never rises or sets? where is that soul that is neither with nor without us? Don't say it is here or there. All creation is him but for the eyes that can see."